PAC RIM 2006 MONDAY, MARCH 13, 2006 TONY COELHO TONY COELHO: ALOHA. IT'S GREAT TO BE HERE IN HAWAII. I AM AMAZED, IMPRESSED, PLEASED WITH THE CROWD. I THINK YOU ALL OUGHT TO GIVE YOURSELF A HAND OF APPLAUSE, BECAUSE YOU'RE INVOLVED IN THE MOVEMENT. YOU ARE WHAT MAKES IT ALL POSSIBLE. SO THANK YOU VERY MUCH. ( APPLAUSE.) I'M AGGRESSIVELY INVOLVED IN THIS WHOLE MOVEMENT BECAUSE I BELIEVE SO MUCH THAT THOSE OF US WITH DISABILITIES SHOULD BE ABLE TO PARTICIPATE IN SOCIETY LIKE ANYBODY ELSE. ONE OF THE THINGS THAT WE'RE DOING HERE AT THIS CONFERENCE IS WE HAVE INTRODUCED THE BUSINESS LEADERSHIP NETWORK IN ORDER TO GET BUSINESSES THAT CURRENTLY EMPLOY PEOPLE WITH DISABILITIES TO DEAL WITH OTHER BUSINESSES WHO HAVE NOT YET STARTED EMPLOYING PEOPLE WITH DISABILITIES. AND IT'S TO BREAK DOWN THE NEGATIVES, THE FEARS AND QUESTIONS IN REGARD TO HIRING PEOPLE WITH DISABILITIES. WE ARE STARTING THAT EFFORT RIGHT NOW HERE IN HAWAII. I AM PLEASED TO ANNOUNCE THAT THE MAYOR JUST AGREED TO BE A SPONSOR OF AND TO HELP AND SUPPORT THE WHOLE BUSINESS LEADERSHIP NETWORK HERE IN HAWAII. SO THANK YOU, MAYOR, VERY, VERY MUCH. I APPRECIATE IT. I AM VERY PARTIAL TO THE MAYOR BECAUSE I'VE KNOWN HIM FOR MANY YEARS, AND HE'S A WONDERFUL, WONDERFUL HUMAN BEING. HIS WIFE GAIL AND I WORKED TOGETHER ON SOME COMMITTEES IN THE CONGRESS, SO THE TWO OF THEM ARE A WONDERFUL COUPLE AND I AM REALLY EXCITED THAT HE HAS AGREED TO PARTICIPATE IN THE DISABILITY MOVEMENT HERE IN HAWAII. PEOPLE ASK ME ALL THE TIME AS TO WHY I AM INVOLVED, WHY DO I SPEND SO MUCH TIME INVOLVED IN THE DISABILITY COMMUNITY. THE QUESTION IS AN EASY ONE TO ANSWER. I HAVE A DISABILITY. MOST PEOPLE DON'T KNOW THAT I DO. I WAS SUCCESSFUL IN POLITICS, BECAME THE MAJORITY WHIP. I WENT TO WALL STREET, WAS INVOLVED WITH A MAJOR INVESTMENT FIRM FOR SEVEN YEARS, AND VERY SUCCESSFUL THERE. STARTED TWO BUSINESSES AFTER THAT. AND YET DURING THIS WHOLE TIME, THE THING ABOUT ME THAT IS CONSISTENT, THE THING ABOUT ME THAT I AM SO HAPPY WITH IS THAT I HAVE A DISABILITY. I HAVE EPILEPSY. AND, YOU KNOW, IT'S MADE ME A BETTER PERSON. IT'S MADE ME SOMEBODY WHO APPRECIATES AND UNDERSTANDS THINGS THAT ARE HAPPENING. SO TO BETTER UNDERSTAND MY STORY AND WHY I AM SO COMMITTED AND INVOLVED, I WANT TO TELL YOU HOW IT HAPPENED. I WAS 15 YEARS OLD AND I WAS ON A DAIRY FARM. MY FAMILY HAD A DAIRY AND I MILKED COWS EVERY MORNING AND EVERY NIGHT. ONE DAY I WAS TRAVELING DOWN THIS CANAL BANK AND ALL OF A SUDDEN THE PICKUP -- THE PERSON DRIVING WAS SPEEDING A LITTLE MUCH -- AND THE PICKUP FLIPPED OVER AND LANDED IN THE CANAL. I HIT MY HEAD BUT I WAS ABLE TO COME OUT OF THE PICKUP TRUCK, AND I WAS WORRIED ABOUT NOT MY HEADACHE, I WAS WORRIED ABOUT THE OTHER END OF MY ANATOMY, BECAUSE I KNEW WHAT MY DAD WOULD DO TO ME, BECAUSE WE HAD JUST TOTALLED THE PICKUP. MY HEADACHES CONTINUED FOR A WHILE, BUT WE NEVER WENT TO A DOCTOR BECAUSE WE WERE POOR AND IN A RURAL PART OF THE COUNTRY, SO WE DIDN'T BELIEVE IN DOCTORS OR GO TO DOCTORS, BECAUSE YOU DIDN'T HAVE THE MONEY TO DO SO. MY HEADACHES WENT AWAY AFTER A BIT, AND THEN A YEAR LATER I'M IN THE BARN MILKING COWS AND ALL OF A SUDDEN I'M OUT. MY BROTHER CARRIES ME TO THE HOUSE, THE DOCTOR COMES OUT, AND WHEN I WAKE UP, THIS DOCTOR IS SITTING ON ME BECAUSE I'D BEEN CONVULSING AND THRASHING AND HE DIDN'T KNOW WHAT ELSE TO DO, BUT HE SAT ON ME. NOT A VERY GOOD WAY TO PRACTICE MEDICINE, BUT THAT'S WHAT HE KNEW. HE TOLD MY PARENTS WHAT I WAS GOING THROUGH, BUT THEY REFUSED TO ACKNOWLEDGE IT. I THEN WENT TO OTHER MEDICAL DOCTORS AND THEY ALSO TOLD MY PARENTS, BUT THEY REFUSED TO ACKNOWLEDGE IT AND DIDN'T TELL ME, BECAUSE EVERY TIME I'D ASK WHAT IS MY PROBLEM, THEY DIDN'T HAVE AN ANSWER. THEY SAID, WE DON'T KNOW. WHAT I DIDN'T KNOW, UNTIL MANY YEARS LATER, IS THAT THE DOCTORS WERE TELLING THEM THAT I HAD THESE PASSING OUT SPELLS AND SO FORTH, THEY WERE BECAUSE OF MY EPILEPSY. WELL, IN THE PORTUGUESE CULTURE, IF YOU HAVE EPILEPSY, IT MEANS YOU ARE POSSESSED BY THE DEVIL. AND THE REASON YOU ARE POSSESSED BY THE DEVIL IS THAT SOMEBODY COMMITTED A MAJOR SIN IN THIS FAMILY AND GOD WANTS EVERYBODY TO KNOW THIS FAMILY HAS BEEN TARGETED AND MARKED BECAUSE OF THE SIN THEY COMMITTED. A HEAVY BURDEN, A HEAVY BURDEN FOR MY FAMILY. I DIDN'T KNOW WHAT THEY WERE GOING THROUGH. I JUST KNEW THAT I COULDN'T GET MY HEADACHES RESOLVED AND THESE PASSING OUT SPELLS THAT I WAS GOING THROUGH. I THEN WENT TO WITCH DOCTORS. AS A 17-YEAR-OLD, YOUNG BOY GOING TO A WITCH DOCTOR WITH THE LIGHTS DOWN LOW, CANDLES BURNING ON MY FOREHEAD AND ON MY STOMACH, AND POURING HOT OILS ON ME AND SO FORTH, AND THE WITCH DOCTOR SPEAKING IN ALL THESE STRANGE TONGUES AND SO FORTH, A LITTLE SCARY FOR A 17-YEAR-OLD. AFTER GOING TO THREE DIFFERENT WITCH DOCTORS, I FINALLY SAID, ENOUGH. I'M NOT GOING BACK TO ANY OF THESE ANYMORE. AND I DIDN'T. MY FAMILY WAS UPSET BECAUSE THEY FELT THAT WAS THE ONLY WAY IT WAS GOING TO BE RESOLVED. WHAT I DIDN'T KNOW IS THAT THE CATHOLIC CHURCH -- AND BEFORE ANYBODY GETS EXCITED, I AM STILL A DEVOUT CATHOLIC, SO I'M GOING TO TELL THE STORY. THE CATHOLIC CHURCH IN 400 AD ADOPTED AS PART OF CANON LAW THAT IF YOU HAD EPILEPSY, ARE POSSESSED BY THE DEVIL, THAT YOU COULD NOT BE A CATHOLIC PRIEST. WELL, MY FAMILY GREW UP WITH THAT CULTURE, THINKING THAT EPILEPSY MEANT POSSESSION OF THE DEVIL, SO IT'S UNDERSTANDABLE. BUT I DIDN'T KNOW ANY OF THIS, ALL RIGHT? SO I GO ON TO HIGH SCHOOL. I AM OUTSTANDING SENIOR AND STUDENT BODY PRESIDENT. I'M STILL HAVING MY PASSING OUT SPELLS, AS I CALL THEM. AND THEN I GO TO COLLEGE AND I END UP AS STUDENT BODY PRESIDENT, OUTSTANDING SENIOR, AND I'M STILL HAVING MY PASSING OUT SPELLS, AND I HAVE NO IDEA WHAT IT IS. SOME PEOPLE HAVE SEVERE HEADACHES. OTHER PEOPLE DO OTHER THINGS. I JUST PASSED OUT. AND THEN I DECIDED IN MY SENIOR YEAR TO BECOME A CATHOLIC PRIEST. NOW, THAT WAS THE SHOCK OF MY GIRLFRIEND OF FIVE YEARS AND THAT WAS A SHOCK TO MY FRATERNITY BROTHERS WHO KNEW BETTER, BUT, ANYHOW, I DECIDED I WANTED TO BE A CATHOLIC PRIEST. I GO INTO THE SEMINARY AND I HAVE TO TAKE A PHYSICAL. THE DOCTOR REVIEWS ME AND HE SAYS, DO YOU HAVE HEADACHES OR PASSING OUT SPELLS? I SAID, YEAH, ALL THE TIME. HE SAID, HAVE YOU EVER BEEN TOLD WHAT THEY ARE? I SAID, NO, THE DOCTORS DIDN'T KNOW. HE SAID, WELL, IT'S PRETTY OBVIOUS WHAT THEY ARE. IT'S EPILEPSY. I HAD NEVER HEARD THE WORD. HE TOLD ME, THERE'S GOOD NEWS AND BAD NEWS. THE GOOD NEWS IS THAT YOU'RE 4F. YOU DON'T HAVE TO SERVE IN VIETNAM. THIS WAS 1964. THE BAD NEWS IS THAT THE CATHOLIC CHURCH SAYS THAT YOU CANNOT BE A PRIEST BECAUSE YOU HAVE EPILEPSY. AND THEN HE EXPLAINED TO ME WHAT WAS GOING ON. ALL OF A SUDDEN I REALIZED WHAT WAS HAPPENING, WHY PEOPLE WERE TURNING AGAINST ME, WHY PEOPLE WERE SAYING DIFFERENT THINGS. I REMEMBER WALKING OUT OF THAT DOCTOR'S OFFICE THINKING I WAS THE SAME PERSON THAT WENT IN. LITTLE DID I KNOW THAT MY WHOLE WORLD CHANGED. I CALLED MY PARENTS AFTER I LEFT AND I SAID, I HAVE GOOD NEWS. I KNOW WHAT MY PASSING SPELLS ARE, I HAVE EPILEPSY. MY PARENTS IMMEDIATELY SAID, NO SON OF OURS HAS EPILEPSY. AND FOR 29 YEARS WE HAD VERY LITTLE CONVERSATION. THEN THE NEXT THING, ALL OF A SUDDEN MY DRIVER'S LICENSE WAS TAKEN AWAY, MY INSURANCE WAS TAKEN AWAY. A 21-YEAR-OLD MAN, YOUNG GUY IN LOS ANGELES, CALIFORNIA, WITHOUT A CAR MEANS YOU ARE DISABLED, MEANS YOU CAN'T FUNCTION. SO WHAT DID I DO? I DROVE ANYWAY. AND THEN THE WORST PART IS: AS OUTSTANDING SENIOR, STUDENT BODY PRESIDENT, I HAD ALL THESE COMPANIES THAT WANTED ME TO GO TO WORK FOR THEM, BECAUSE I WAS GOING TO BE POTENTIALLY A GREAT EMPLOYEE AND ALL THAT STUFF, BUT WHEN I WENT TO ALL THESE COMPANIES NOW, AND I HAD TO MARK THE JOB APPLICATION THAT I HAD EPILEPSY, NOBODY WANTED TO HIRE ME. THEY ALL HAD AN EXCUSE. SO I'M IN LOS ANGELES AND I'D GO UP TO GRIFFITH PARK. AND I THOUGHT THERE WAS A MOUNTAIN THERE. I GO BACK NOW AND IT'S JUST LITTLE HILLS, BUT IN THOSE DAYS I THOUGHT IT WAS A MOUNTAIN. AND I'D GO TO THE MOUNTAINTOP AND I'D PULL OUT MY BOTTLE OF SCOTCH AND I'D GET DRUNK EVERY DAY. I WAS DRUNK BY 2:00 O'CLOCK, 3:00 O'CLOCK IN THE AFTERNOON. THEN AFTER A PERIOD OF TIME I BECAME SUICIDAL, BECAUSE EVERYTHING I HAD EVER TOUCHED IN MY LIFE, ANYTHING I'D EVER BELIEVED IN MY LIFE HAD TURNED AGAINST ME. ONE DAY I SAW THESE KIDS GET ON AND OFF THE MERRY-GO-ROUND AND I HEARD THE MUSIC -- I CAN STILL HEAR IT TODAY -- AND ALL OF A SUDDEN SOMETHING HIT ME, AND I DECIDED I WAS GOING TO BE JUST LIKE THOSE LITTLE KIDS. I WAS GOING TO BELIEVE. I WASN'T GOING TO LET ANYBODY STOP ME FROM DOING ANYTHING. AND FROM THAT DAY TO THIS DAY I BELIEVE IN MY ABILITY TO DO THINGS. I'M NOT GOING TO LET ANYBODY STOP ME FROM BELIEVING AND DOING THE THINGS I WANT TO DO. ( APPLAUSE.) WHEN I LEFT THAT HILL THAT DAY, I GO BACK TO MY FRATERNITY HOUSE. THEY WERE LETTING ME STAY THERE BECAUSE NOBODY ELSE SUPPOSEDLY WANTED ME. THIS PRIEST FRIEND OF MINE A FEW DAYS LATER COMES UP TO ME AND SAYS, I GOT AN OPPORTUNITY FOR YOU. I'M THINKING, YEAH, SURE. HE SAID, I HAVE A FAMILY THAT WOULD LIKE YOU TO COME TO LIVE WITH THEM TO HELP THEIR FAMILY IN SOME WAYS. OKAY. THAT SOUNDS GOOD. WHO? MOST OF YOU ARE TOO YOUNG. MOST OF YOU WON'T KNOW WHO THE FAMILY IS. IT WAS BOB HOPE. HE'S A FAMOUS COMEDIAN IN THE UNITED STATES. YOU'RE PART OF THE UNITED STATES. YOU PROBABLY DON'T REMEMBER HIM, BUT HE IS QUITE FAMOUS, WAS QUITE FAMOUS. I WENT TO LIVE WITH HIM AND IT WAS FABULOUS. HE BELIEVED THAT I COULD DO THINGS AND HE TALKED TO ME REPEATEDLY. HE SAID, TONY, LET ME TELL YOU SOMETHING. YOU BELIEVE YOU HAVE A MINISTRY. YOU BELIEVE YOU CAN HELP PEOPLE. LET ME TELL YOU SOMETHING. IN A CHURCH YOU WOULD AFFECT A FEW THOUSAND PEOPLE. IN A BUSINESS YOU WOULD DIRECT. HE SAID, WHAT YOU DON'T UNDERSTAND IS THERE'S A MINISTRY IN EVERYTHING. THERE'S A MINISTRY IN BUSINESS, A MINISTRY IN ENTERTAINMENT, IN SPORTS, AND THERE IS AN EXCELLENT MINISTRY IN POLITICS IF PRACTICED CORRECTLY, AND THAT'S WHERE YOU BELONG. I DON'T WANT YOU TO GO TO WORK FOR AN AGENCY. I WANT YOU TO GO TO WORK FOR A MEMBER OF THE HOUSE OR A MEMBER OF THE SENATE AND MAKE THINGS DIFFERENT FOR PEOPLE. THAT'S WHAT YOU SHOULD DO. IT WAS A GREAT IDEA. I DECIDED TO DO IT. AND THAT STARTED MY POLITICAL CAREER. WHEN I TOLD HIM I ACCEPTED A JOB, HE SAID, WHO WITH? I TOLD HIM WHO IT WAS. HE SAID, WHY WOULD YOU GO WITH HIM? I NEVER HEARD OF HIM. AND WHAT IS HE, A DEMOCRAT OR REPUBLICAN? I SAID, A DEMOCRAT. HE SAID, OH MY GOD, YOU DON'T WANT TO GO WITH A DEMOCRAT, BUT I DID. I GOT TO WASHINGTON, AND AFTER A WHILE -- I WORKED THIRTEEN YEARS FOR HIM AS A STAFFER. AND THEN HE DECIDED TO RETIRE AND HE WANTED ME TO TAKE HIS PLACE. WELL, THE VERY FIRST THING I DID IS I WENT TO MY DOCTOR AND GOT MY DOCTOR TO GIVE ME A LETTER TO SAY THAT JUST BECAUSE I HAD EPILEPSY DIDN'T MEAN THAT I COULDN'T FUNCTION, I COULDN'T DO THE JOB. I HAD IT THERE JUST IN CASE IT WAS RAISED DURING MY CAMPAIGN. IN OCTOBER OF MY CAMPAIGN IT WAS OBVIOUS I WAS GOING TO WIN BIG. MY OPPONENT GOES TO ONE OF THE CONSERVATIVE AREAS IN MY DISTRICT AND HE SAYS, I WANT YOU TO KNOW -- THIS IS AT A DINNER PARTY -- I WANT YOU TO KNOW THAT TONY IS A VERY SICK MAN. HE HAS EPILEPSY. MOST PEOPLE NEVER HEARD WHAT IT WAS. BUT HE SAID, WHAT WOULD YOU THINK IF HE WENT TO THE WHITE HOUSE AND ARGUED A CRITICAL ISSUE FOR US SUCH AS WATER -- WHICH IT IS IN MY AREA OF CALIFORNIA -- AND WENT TO THE WHITE HOUSE AND ARGUED A CRITICAL ISSUE SUCH AS WATER AND HE HAD A SEIZURE? THE PEOPLE AT THE DINNER WERE DISGUSTED. SEVERAL OF THEM CALLED ME AND SAID THEY COULD NOT SUPPORT HIM BECAUSE OF THOSE TACTICS. A REPORTER CALLED ME THE NEXT DAY AND SAID, I UNDERSTAND LAST NIGHT YOUR OPPONENT SAID X. WHAT DO YOU THINK OF THAT? I SAID, YOU KNOW -- I'M NOT THAT CLEVER, BUT GOD WAS WITH ME I THINK THAT MOMENT -- I SAID, YOU KNOW WHAT, I'VE KNOWN A LOT OF PEOPLE IN THE THIRTEEN YEARS I'VE BEEN IN WASHINGTON WHO'VE GONE TO THE WHITE HOUSE AND HAD FITS. AT LEAST, AT LEAST I HAVE AN EXCUSE. ( APPLAUSE.) THAT KILLED THAT ISSUE. THEY NEVER USED EPILEPSY AGAINST ME AGAIN POLITICALLY. OVERDONE. WHEN I GOT THERE, I DECIDED THAT THIS WAS IMPORTANT, A PODIUM. GRAB A HOLD OF THE PODIUM, DO SOMETHING WITH IT, MAKE A DIFFERENCE. SO WITH EVERY LEGISLATION THAT CAME THROUGH WHERE I HAD AMENDMENTS DEALING WITH DISABILITIES, I WOULD MAKE SURE THAT THOSE OF US WITH DISABILITIES WERE INCLUDED IN HOUSING PROGRAMS AND EVERYTHING ELSE THAT CAME UP. THEN I REALIZED, THAT'S REALLY NOT GETTING AT IT. WHAT IT REALLY COMES DOWN TO IS THAT AT THAT PERIOD OF OUR LIFE, IN THE LATE 80'S, THAT IF YOU WERE IN A WHEELCHAIR, YOU COULD BE LEGALLY DENIED ACCESS TO A MOVIE THEATRE BECAUSE YOU COULD BE A FIRE HAZARD. IF YOU WERE SIGHT IMPAIRED, YOU COULD BE DENIED ACCESS IN A RESTAURANT BECAUSE THEY DIDN'T HAVE TIME TO TELL YOU WHAT WAS ON THE MENU. I COULD GO ON AND ON WHAT WAS LEGALLY POSSIBLE FOR PEOPLE TO DISCRIMINATE AGAINST US WITH NO RESTRICTIONS WHATSOEVER, UNTIL JULY OF 1990. AND WHEN I REALIZED WHAT WAS GOING ON, I DECIDED WE HAD TO PUT IN THE ADA, WE HAD TO MAKE SURE OUR BASIC CIVIL RIGHTS WERE THE SAME AS EVERYONE ELSE'S, THAT WE SHOULD NOT BE DISCRIMINATED, AND THAT WE HAD TO HAVE THOSE. AND THAT WAS THE BIRTH OF THE ADA. NOW, WHEN PEOPLE ASK ME ABOUT THE ADA, I SAY, GO TO A STREET CORNER RIGHT HERE IN HAWAII OR GO ANYWHERE IN THE UNITED STATES AND SEE WHAT HAS HAPPENED. YOU SEE CURB CUTS. PEOPLE GO ON AND OFF THE SIDEWALKS AS A RESULT OF THE CURB CUTS. WHO USES THEM? YOUNG MOTHERS AND YOUNG FATHERS WITH THEIR BABIES IN STROLLERS, MEN AND WOMEN CARRYING GOODS ON THEIR CARTS TO BUSINESSES ON THE STREET, THE ELDERLY IN ORDER TO GET ON THE SIDEWALK, IT'S EASIER, AND, YES, YOUNG KIDS WITH THEIR ROLLER BLADES AND ROLLER SKATES AND BICYCLES AND WHATEVER ELSE. AND THEN, YES, A FEW PEOPLE WITH DISABILITIES, BECAUSE THAT'S THEIR ONLY ACCESS TO THE BUSINESSES. THAT'S WHAT'S HAPPENING, ACCOMMODATIONS ALL OVER THE PLACE AS A RESULT OF THIS. WHY AM I HERE? I'M HERE BECAUSE I HAVE A DISABILITY AND I WANT TO MAKE SURE THAT OTHER PEOPLE HAVE THE SAME OPPORTUNITIES THAT I HAVE, OPPORTUNITIES TO SUCCEED. BUT I CANNOT SUCCEED, NOR ANYBODY ELSE WITH A DISABILITY CAN SUCCEED, IF YOU DON'T GIVE ME THE RIGHT TO NOT SUCCEED. I HAVE TO HAVE THE ABILITY TO FAIL. AND IF YOU GIVE ME THE RIGHT TO FAIL, I THEN HAVE A CHANCE TO SUCCEED. SO WE DON'T WANT ANYTHING ELSE THAT ANYBODY ELSE HAS, BUT WE DO WANT EVERYTHING THAT EVERYBODY ELSE HAS IN REGARDS TO OPPORTUNITIES. WE WANT THOSE OPPORTUNITIES. ( APPLAUSE.) THANK YOU. AND THOSE OF YOU THAT ARE HERE TODAY, THOSE BUSINESSES, THOSE GROUPS THAT ARE HERE TODAY PROVIDING FOR AN OPPORTUNITY FOR THOSE OF US TO HAVE JOBS, I SAY THANK YOU, I SAY I LOVE YOU, I APPRECIATE THE EFFORT, I APPRECIATE THE TIME, I APPRECIATE YOUR WILLINGNESS TO HAVE US INCLUDED IN THIS WONDERFUL COUNTRY AND WHAT IT'S ALL ABOUT. THANK YOU, THANK YOU VERY MUCH. APPRECIATE IT. ( APPLAUSE.)